If you ever get to a place in your life where you feel like something is missing, it’s probably a connection problem: you are disconnected from God and too connected to the world. Prayer and fasting can have a powerful impact on setting your life back on track. Prayer connects us to God.
Fasting
Fasting is one of the least known disciplines in the church, but it is a practice mentioned both in the Old and New Testament of the Bible and by Jesus Himself, and it has incredible power for our lives today.
Fasting disconnects us from the world.
Fasting isn’t about punishing yourself because God wants you to suffer, rather it’s about intentionally disconnecting from worldly things for a season so you can hear from God and experience the full life He
has for you.
CREATING A LIFESTYLE OF PRAYER
Very early in the morning, while it was still dark,
Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a
solitary place, where He prayed.
MARK 1:35
Prayer is most effective when it isn’t something we do every
now and then, but when it’s a lifestyle we cultivate. To
understand how to have a lifestyle of prayer, we can look at
the example Jesus gave during His life on earth.
HAVE A CERTAIN TIME
Jesus got up early in the morning to spend time with His
Heavenly Father. Make a daily appointment with God —
whether it’s first thing in the morning, at lunch, or in the
evening — and faithfully keep it.
HAVE A CERTAIN PLACE
Jesus had a specific place He went to pray. Having a
designated place to pray helps us remove distractions and
frees us to worship and pray out loud.
HAVE A CERTAIN PLAN
When Jesus taught His disciples how to pray, He gave them
a prayer outline. We call it “The Lord’s Prayer.” This outline,
along with several other tools, is available in this guide. As we
pray every day, our plans for our prayer time can vary, maybe
including worship music, Bible reading, and quiet time to
listen to God. It doesn’t always have to look the same; it just
helps when we have a plan for connecting regularly with God.
The Lord’s Prayer is often recited in churches or at religious
events, but there’s so much more to this prayer. Jesus
provided this model as an outline to teach us how to pray
in a way that connects us to God and empowers us to
accomplish great things through Him. This model takes us
through each part of The Lord’s Prayer, showing us
how to pray the way Jesus instructed.
One day Jesus was praying in a certain place.
When He finished, one of His disciples said to Him,
“Lord, teach us to pray…”
LUKE 11:1
“Our Father in Heaven, hallowed be Your Name.
Your Kingdom come. Your will be done on earth as it
is in Heaven. Give us this day our daily bread.
And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.
And do not lead us into temptation, but deliver
us from the evil one. For Yours is the Kingdom and the
power and the glory forever. Amen.”
MATTHEW 6:9-13 NKJV
01. CONNECT WITH GOD RELATIONALLY
“Our Father in Heaven”
God isn’t interested in us practicing religion; instead,
He desires a relationship with us. God has adopted
us as His children and loves for us to call Him our
Father. Starting our prayer time acknowledging
our relationship with God is powerful for us and
delights Him as well.
You have not received a spirit that makes you fearful
slaves. Instead, you received God’s Spirit when
He adopted you as His own children. Now we call Him,
“Abba, Father.”
ROMANS 8:15 NLT
Proclaim your intimate relationship with God,
addressing Him lovingly as your Father and thanking
Him that you are His child.
PRAYER:
“Father, I come to You in prayer today thankful that I am
Your child. I know I am a sinner, but You have forgiven
me and adopted me as Your own, and I am so grateful to
call you my Father. Thank you for loving me. I love you.”
02. WORSHIP HIS NAME
“Hallowed be Your Name”
God loves when we worship Him, and there is power in
03. PRAY HIS AGENDA FIRST
“Your Kingdom come. Your will be done on earth
Part of being a child of God is caring about what
He cares about. We know His will is perfect, and we
acknowledge His wisdom and sovereignty when we pray
His agenda first.
He will always give you all you need from day to day if
you will make the Kingdom of God your primary concern.
LUKE 12:31 TLB
Spend time focusing on what God is focused on.
His priorities include:
• Saving the lost
• Wisdom and guidance for those in authority –
parental, spiritual, governmental, work-related
• Accomplishing His purpose in our lives
PRAYER:
“God, I recognize there is no better plan on earth than
Yours, and I pray for Your will to be done in my life
(name the areas of your life where you need more of
God’s presence today) and in our world. This world is
lost and needs You desperately, and I pray for every
person to know You as their personal Lord and Savior.
I pray for the leaders in my life (pray specifically over
parents, spiritual leaders, government leaders, employers,
and any other leaders in your life), that you would
give them supernatural wisdom and discernment as
they lead. Give them a revelation of Your will and Your
purpose for them. And I give my life to You again today;
have Your way in my life! Anything You want to do in
me or through me, I will do. I ask today for wisdom and
clarity as You show me my next steps.”
04. DEPEND ON HIM FOR EVERYTHING
“Give us this day our daily bread”
God promises to supply all our needs, and He wants us
05. FORGIVE AND BE FORGIVEN
“Forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors”
God has offered us complete forgiveness, and we can
receive it at any time. When we turn away from our
sins and receive His forgiveness, our hearts are more
prepared to forgive others as well.
If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will
forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.
1 JOHN 1:9
Ask God to check your heart and life and show you areas
where you might need to ask for forgiveness from Him.
Then, it is your turn to forgive those who have offended
you. We can even choose to forgive people in advance.
Ask God to forgive you and to help you forgive others.
PRAYER:
“God, thank You so much for offering me the gift of
forgiveness. Show me any areas in my life that I need
to bring before You in order to receive forgiveness and
healing. I confess that I have been struggling with sin
(talk to God about any areas of sin in your life),
and I know that You want me to be clean again. Please
forgive me for my sin. Thank You for showing me
unfailing grace. As You have so freely forgiven me,
I also want to freely forgive others. Please help me let
go of all of my offenses. I release to You those who have
hurt me, and I trust You to handle those situations
according to Your perfect will.”
06. ENGAGE IN SPIRITUAL WARFARE
“And do not lead us into temptation, but deliver us
Spiritual warfare can seem difficult to understand,
but the Bible makes it very clear that we have an enemy
who is trying to steal from us, kill us, and destroy us.
As we pray, we take our stand against the enemy and
fight from a place of victory through Jesus as we’re
empowered by His Holy Spirit. There is power in God’s
Word, and every lie the enemy has told us can be
replaced with God’s truth.
For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but
against the rulers, against the authorities, against the
powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces
of evil in the heavenly realms.
EPHESIANS 6:12
By recognizing that the enemy wants to destroy you,
you can shed light on his lies and claim God’s truth over
your life. Ask God to show you any lies you’re believing
or areas of warfare happening in your life. Ask Him
to expose the enemy and to help you understand and
receive His truth. Simply speaking the Name of Jesus
has great power in the spiritual realm. The Bible tells us
in James 4:7 that if we resist the devil, he will flee from
us. Through prayer, we can resist him and walk forward
in freedom.
PRAYER:
“God, I recognize that my struggles today aren’t against
the people or circumstances around me, but against the
enemy. Please help me to see how the enemy is lying to
me. Help me to recognize his lies, take them captive, and
make all of my thoughts obedient to the truth of Your
Word (list out any specific areas God shows you where
you have believed a lie that needs to be replaced with His
truth). While the enemy wants to destroy me, I know
that You came to give me life to the fullest. I speak the
name of Jesus over my life and declare that no weapon
formed against me will prosper. I don’t have to fear the
enemy because the One who is in me is greater than the
one who is in the world.”
07. EXPRESS FAITH IN GOD’S ABILITY
“For yours is the Kingdom and the power
God is more than able to move in every situation, and